There are lots of reasons why our penises might not be doing what we want when we want and performance anxiety is just one of them.

There could be organic causes such as physical pain, tissue damage or hormone levels that affect our body’s ability to respond. There may be psychological factors such as trauma, anxiety or depression.

We will also consider relational factors like communication, attachment and gender roles. There is no silver bullet for all erectile issues, but with a little exploration, therapy can help you identify the factors impeding your ability to experience the sex you want.